This means when they first see you, they'll see your full profile and your introduction at the same time, which is a great way to pique their interest. Once you've liked someone, you'll see a "message" button on their profile. Click to compose an introductory message and send! Please note: You can only send one initial message, so make it a good one! If the other person hasn't liked you yet, you won't see their profile or your sent message until they like you back.
This is so you don't waste your time on people you've already reached out to. Once you've messaged someone, your intro will go to their Intros tab. We'll also add you to their Discover queue, and let them know you sent an Intro! We always make sure people who have sent Intros get moved towards the front of Discover. The person you've reached out to can visit your profile to view the Intro you sent them, along with the rest of their profile. If they're interested in you, they can Like you back.
For example, you could try something like this:. As well as being funny, you could actually start with one of your favorite jokes. The other person HAS to answer to find out the punchline!
Hey, I was going to open with a really dramatic, existential question, but then I realized that would be too heavy for a dating site! So, hi! Now I want to know what you were going to write!
Truth or Dare can be a really flirtatious game if you get it right. Keep it fun! Pro tip: OkCupid is full of open-minded people who enjoy exploring their sexuality. So a bit of freakiness can sometimes work. This is a great way to pay someone a compliment in your opening message without looking cliched or disturbing.
The stars said that I would meet someone beautiful today and we would be together forever. When should we get married? For example, how about Hola!
Inside Scoop: Want more examples? Check The Best Tinder Openers. Second, he suggested trying to avoid physical compliments. Instead of "hey" or "hi," saying something like "How's it going? Rudder also suggested bringing up specific interests based on something you saw on your match's OkCupid profile. After scanning more than 1 million conversations, the report also found data scientists that, across all sexual identities, characters was the ideal length for a successful first message.
Most tellingly, the report found short and sincere messages i. Short and sweet messages do the trick, as does sending a question to be answered, but beyond that, what makes an OkCupid intro message worthy of a response? Do you send a punny first message? A thoughtful one? Is it better to be cheeky? Is a lame first message actually kind of endearing to a stranger? This article was originally published on Updated: June 22, Originally Published: April 2, If you have a three-day weekend , where are you headed?
The beach? The mountains?
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